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Chapter 6: Sex and how to use it. Remember men are stupid (2ªparte)

Men really can´t say why a particular girl is good looking (or sometimes even correctly determine she´s of the female species in the first place). For the most part, men are blunt instrumens; they don´t read the subtle signals or delicate details

When men are looking for attractive women, they´re looking at the lipstick, the dress and the shoes - and, most important, the "feel good" sense. How doees this woman make me feel? They also particulary fall for the femine cliché - a woman who is sensual, soft and acts like a woman, even if her heart us hard as nails.

Often the woman who nabs her target is the one who makes that man feel sexy, powerful and desirable. The best place to do this, of course is the bed.

Sex is one area where men are extremely vulnerable, and where Shanghai Girls are at their best.

Tips on Sex:

1. Be open-minded: sexual flexibility goes far

The most accurate description of a Shanghai Girl í´ve ever heard is the following: "when a shanghai girl eats fish, she goes into all the crevices and orifices and leaves nothing untouched. At the end of her meal, there are only bones left."

Most Shanghai Girls harbor no specific inhibitions when in bed because they have not been indoctrinated inti any taboos refarding wwhat good girls shouldn´t do. A Shangai Girl knows a body is a physical thing and, many loyalties dependencies and addictions can be created if she hits the right combination of deep, emotional craving with physicall stimulation.

Remember: keep your bedroom activities to yourself; exercise your utmost discretion. Never dispaly any evidence of your bedroom life in public for two reasons: you don´t want other potential suitors marking you as someone else´s mistress; and secondly, restraing during any public outing will have your guy hankering even more of you.

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Chapter 6: Sex and how to use it. Remember men are stupid

Ultimately, sex is the most powerful tool that the Shanghai Girl has at hr disposal. Every encounter, every incident, and every conversation can be boiled down to sex.

Beware of "NO"
For most men the only question, whether they´ll admite ir or not, is: "Can i have sex with her?" If the answer is "no", then you´re not a contender. If the enswer is no and he still wants to marry with you, then he is either gay (wich es ikay if you know exactly what you are getting into) or he is seriously perverse.

So the key ti being a successfuk Shanghai Girl is getting the guy to feel deep inside, "Yes, i can have sex with her and i´ll do antything to have sex with her".

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2. It´s all in the Details. 

Charm is a matter of noticing detail. What is the guy wearing? Is it worthy of a comment? What is he saying? Do you have a good rejoinder that shows you´ve been listening closely? What is he doing? Can you make some comment to show that you´ve noticed him? It´s not even what you say, since many Shanghai Girls have been able to do this even with a very limited command of the English language.  Sometimes just a smile can express "i see you just missed ypur elevator; how annoying. It happens to me, too". Many things don´t have to be said; a quick sympathetic glance can convey a sense of conection. Has he just dropped something? If you see him regularly, does he look slightly different today? Whether it is your boss, your client, some random man on the street or a stranger at a party, it is this attention to small details and extending yoursekf a little that makes a girl charming.

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Tips on Charm

1. When you see a potential mate, make direct eye contact, and smile.

It sounds easy, but most people always fail with this basic technique. Why? They haven´t practiced how to boldly make the connection for that brief moment, and then pretend it was nothing. Also, making direct eye contact and smiling is only effective if you are or appear to be a balanced and confident persona. Nobody Wants direct eye contact with someone who looks desesperate, maniacal or sekf-obsessed. Nor does one want a smile from someone who seems too eager to please, or too eager to be noticed. If you are not sure how direct eye contact and smiling works, go out and practice in venues that are filled with random people you don´t care about such as a shopping mall or a train station and test it out. Then try it at more appropiate venues -a cafe, musuem or art gallery. Most Shanghai Girls, if they want be noticed, only need to give and enticingly brief look at the designated person. Why? Because most men, and most human begins for tha matter, just want to be noticed. They want to feel special and, regardless of their outer apperances, that they are worthy of a beautiful girls´s attention.

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As a result of this basic male instinct, one of the most essential requisites for a shanghai girl is looking young and beautiful. Mind you young is relative. If you are 45 and targeting a 68 year-old man, you´re young. If you are 30 and taargeting a 22 year-old you´re old. And i know men who have left their spouses for mistresses only a few years younger than the wives. The mistresses just felt younger and livelier. What about beauty? what if you´re not beautiful? let´s just say that beauty is always subjective and skin deep which means you can do a lot to make yourself beautiful. Let´s look at some of the traits of a quintessential Shanghai girl.



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1.- Stay fit.
The best way to lose weight? Simple: Don´t eat. Or exercise a lot. Or do a mixture of both. Of the two, not eating is the simpler method. Women may moan, and moan and moan, but most Shanghai Girls undestand thet looking trim and fit is absolutely the most basic requisite for marrying up. So they´ll never let their bodies go.



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2.- Dress like a young woman.

The Shangai Girl will never go on a date with a guy without doing up her hair and putting on the right shade of lipstick. All this makes him feel special -even he is already her fourth date of the week. So forget de denim overalls, t-shirts and hiking boots. These are okay to pull out when you are doing one of the rugged, outdoorsy things later in the relationship, but when you´re going on a date, dress up appropiately for the occasion. And if you are a Shanghai Girl you will put out all stops to show off your femnine atributes -your voluptuous cleavage, slender figure, long legs, or your graceful neck.

Whenever he walks down the street with you, men should always be looking at you, which reinforces that he must work to keep you for himself. I´ve seen many girls who have the attitude but not quite the beauty. Guys can never tell the diference! Between the sexy clothes, alluring perfume, and nice mascara and lipstick, she looks good enough to be a model, as far as he ´s concerned.


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4.- Designer clothes?

Shanghai Girls are notorious for spending most of their disposable income (and other people´s disposable income) on their clothes. Why do they do this? Well, it´s simple: it´s the most basic requisite of looking good, just like a good figure and perfect toilette. There´s nothing wrong with borrowing other girls clothes or, if in a pinch, borrowing something from a store and returning once the occasion is past. Guys might say they don´t care what you wear, but more often than not they will take stock of your designer preferences. This is useful for starter-boyfriends who may need hints as to the items he should buy for. Also if you´re trying to pass yourself off as more established and wealthy than you reallu are, a few brand names here and there will make him relax.


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Tips to find wealthy men

1. Rich men don´t always look rich. And many who look rich are not. You can´t gauge wealth by oberving someone´s spending. Some of the richest people are also the most tightfisted people in the world.

2. Do you reserch, […] the internet has made it relatively simple to find out the background of any person who has some public profile. What is his job title? Who are his family? Ask him casually about his siblings remember the nnames and check them out. […]

3. Train yourself to see beyond the external package. Remember that other people´s opinions are not necessarily trustworthy –they may be misinformed or promoting a lie to benefit themselves. Even so, take their gossip and information as data and integrate them into your own research. […]


Some foolproof strategies to get close to that wealthy man

Rule 1: Never understime what is around you. […] How did they start? First of all, they look around them and identified places with potential for them –hotels catering to foreing bussines clients or foreing companies settieng up office in China. Those places meant foreing, and foreing money. But one of the prerequisites of getting a job at these places was speaking competent englis, wich many of these girls could not. And what was the quickest way for these girls to improve their Englis? Acquire an English-speaking boyfriend.

Rule 2: Move up and out of your restricted social circle. […] A Shangai Girl never misses a party, gathering or particulary, a bussines trip that comes her way. She´ll make sure she´s looking fantastic and these events and won´t hesitate to meet new prospects using her charm. She´ll also use her work to meet other who may offer her a better position or better oportunities, the key to doing this is to be perfectly mannered yet gently assertive. Sure other will hate you because they don´t have the guts ti approach the senior manager at the company party and tell him how great his speech was, but al long as you remain impeccably polite to everyones, they can´t do anything about it. In fact they´ll look petty for bad-mouthing you.

Rule 3: Take up the hobbies the rich enjoy. Shangai Girls are adept at moving into the social milieu they want to enter. Some women start buying and selling antiques although they may know nothing about it; other take up restoring rare books (a surfire way to meet wealthy collectors); other get very active in the types of charities where they can meet the wealthy. Charity is always a safe bet; it´s a good way to approach rich people. And added bonus is that these men will allways think of you as a generous –hearted woman.

Shangai Girls seize opportunities

Lulu learnt sailing by offering to go in trips with a penniless guy who
lived on his sailboat, but went out to sea whenever he could. He taught Lulu
everithing about sailing. This taught, she then became a sailing instructor
part-time at a prestigious club. When one particulary wealthy boat owner put a
sing asking if someone would go along on a long sailing journey with him, Lulu
was the first to answer the notice and now she is this billonaire´s live-in
girlfriend.

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Shanghai girl rarely emerge form nowhere straight into the arms of a
multimillionaire. […]

Starter Husband […] well, let´s just say that
during the days when the girl was making less than 100 dollars a month, marrying
the 40-yer-old expatriate divorcee lacking in confidence and needing a sweet
girl by his side fit the 21-yera-old Shangai Girls´s needs. But after five,
seven years, it might have dawned on her that he would be content with a mugo f
beer every night and his study but unexciting salary thet would go towards his
modest retirement fund. She might not have even realizad this until she went
back to the US, UK or Germany with him and saw the kina of dull neighborhood he
lived in and rank he held at his company back at home.

In the 1980s in
Shanghai a starter-husband made all the difference between living with your
parents in a 12-square meter house with a shared communal toilet or living in
your boyfriend or husband´s three-bedroom apartment with two ensuite bathrooms.

[…] And if her instincts were correct, she probable didn´t give him any
children beacuse after a few years, she realized he was not the kina of
long-term investment she wanted to make.

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