Como casarse con un BIllonario (X)

2. It´s all in the Details. 

Charm is a matter of noticing detail. What is the guy wearing? Is it worthy of a comment? What is he saying? Do you have a good rejoinder that shows you´ve been listening closely? What is he doing? Can you make some comment to show that you´ve noticed him? It´s not even what you say, since many Shanghai Girls have been able to do this even with a very limited command of the English language.  Sometimes just a smile can express "i see you just missed ypur elevator; how annoying. It happens to me, too". Many things don´t have to be said; a quick sympathetic glance can convey a sense of conection. Has he just dropped something? If you see him regularly, does he look slightly different today? Whether it is your boss, your client, some random man on the street or a stranger at a party, it is this attention to small details and extending yoursekf a little that makes a girl charming.

Shanghai Girls, by Lan Lan, as told to Mina Hanbury-Tenison
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Beijing is Chic goes China! (II)

During their first visits to Beijing, many expats are terrified to cross the streets. It seems like traffic comes at them in a completely haphazard fashion. A little fear is probably a healthy thing, as it makes one cautious - but in Beijing traffic, assertiveness is the only way to get where you want to go. Of course, being assertive does not mean being reckless. there are some unwritten "rules" that folks in Beijing dollow to get ahead ando to avoid being run by cars, bicycles and buses.

An unwritten rule for pedestrians is to use crossing lights as guidelines only. Just because the light is flashing in your favour does not mean that is safe to cross the street.

Culture Shock! Beijing de Anthony Pan y Kay Jones

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